I ran my 35's on the stock 3.73 gears and I lost 4th and 5th gear for street use. Off Road it required a lot more skinny pedal to crawl and was less controllable. I now have 4.10's after my axle swaps and it is much better, but eventually I would like to move to 4.88 gears, but my Jeep is not my DD.
I agree with the posts above, and I too think the $$$ would be better spent on a locker or two and stronger shafts. The D30 can handle a locker on stock shafts and 33s, but not on 35s. The only reason I am not locked up front yet is due to the stock TJ shafts I am running, plenty strong for an open carrier, but not locked, and I still carry spares.
Don't forget the brakes too. With 35s trying to stop the Jeep was pretty scary. With the 8.8 rear I have 4 wheel disc which is better, but not great. I would still like to upgrade the brake booster and master cylinder to make it a little safer. I keep a pretty good following distance and I wouldn't call it dangerous, but still pretty high on my to do list.